Family Estrangement

Family conflict can be confusing and painful for kids. Disagreements between adults can sometimes lead to separation, changes in family relationships, or loved ones no longer being part of a kid’s daily life. When this happens, kids may feel hurt or unsure why things changed.

This week’s Brite lesson shared a story about a family conflict that led to Abram and Lot going separate ways. Kids learned that even when family relationships are broken or unstable, God remains faithful. He does not leave us, even when others do.

As you talk with your kids this week, give them space to share what they may be feeling about their own family situations. Help them know it’s okay to talk honestly while also respecting family boundaries. Most importantly, remind them that God is always faithful and present, even when family relationships are hard.

Here’s how we discussed this topic and how you can discuss it at home: 

Discuss: Have you ever seen a show or a movie where the family stopped talking to one of their family members? What was that like?

Discuss: Do you have any family members who aren’t as close as they used to be? How does that feel?

Discuss: What do you think God has to say about that?

Say: Sometimes families have conflicts that are difficult to work out. Sometimes family members choose not to be a part of family gatherings or stay close to their relatives. That can be really hard on families, especially kids. It can also make it hard to feel like you can trust people. We can always trust that God is faithful. He’s not going to break promises or stop being with us. Hebrews 13:5b says: for He has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” We also have the opportunity to be an example of His faithfulness to others in our lives. We can do what we say and be there for others.